How do my friendships develop once I am in a relationship?

 
We have his “childhood” friends who were the first with whom we were able to share great adventures which are today beautiful memories or even old anecdotes to come out during the meal. There are the friends of the “lycée” met a little later, with the first love for some, the end of the school curriculum, the permit, the start of independence… Then come the friends from college, we become adults, we choose our professional path, we go out together. We finally meet his half, with whom we start to couple and finally we say that it will be by his side that we want to end our life! We then commit ourselves more officially, we give less news because the other is enough for us, we let it go … And then one day we wake up: but where have the others gone? We feel that we need to review them because the period when our spouse completely fills us inevitably passes. Those who are in a couple give news to propose a housewarming, to announce a marriage or even a birth! Singles offer to go out, but after a few refusals no longer know our phone number. They are afraid of disturbing us and make their plans for singles. So we make new “couple” friends who live nearby, who work with us or who live the same things at the same time, and then there are some “old people” who we try to see as much as possible, who hang on and persevere. announce a marriage or even a birth! Singles offer to go out, but after a few refusals no longer know our phone number. They are afraid of disturbing us and make their plans for singles. So we make new “couple” friends who live nearby, who work with us or who live the same things at the same time, and then there are some “old people” who we try to see as much as possible, who hang on and persevere. announce a marriage or even a birth! Singles offer to go out, but after a few refusals no longer know our phone number. They are afraid of disturbing us and make their plans for singles. So we make new “couple” friends who live nearby, who work with us or who live the same things at the same time, and then there are some “old people” who we try to see as much as possible, who hang on and persevere.
 
It is important to know this phenomenon for two things. The first, know that this happens to the majority of people, so if your friends are less present, it’s normal, it is not because you are no longer worth anything. On the other hand, now that you know, take the steps to keep your best friends. We all need love but also this circle of friends which cheers us up, changes us from everyday life, makes us laugh by talking about all these shared things and who is also there to share our joys.
 
It’s easier to see your friends who are in a relationship, because you have common discussions, you live more or less the same things, you have overlapping questions … So you go out on a foursome, or a side men the other women, in short, there is always a moment to give to his friends as a couple to have news of the children, of the future purchase, etc. … However, the single friend is more difficult to reach . Indeed, he does not share the daily life of a couple, always feels like the third wheel of the coach, prefers to go out to a nightclub rather than sit at the restaurant, wants to do activities that are no longer possible as soon as the couple has a baby, plans last minute plans and don’t understand that the couple needs a little organization… In short, you live with this friend, on different planes. You can neither blame him nor blame yourself. Sometimes you tell yourself that he is lucky to be so flexible and free, while for his part, he tells himself that he would like to come home in the evening knowing who will find his family and spend an evening posed with those that he likes.
 
Read this again as soon as you are nostalgic for certain friendships. The most important thing is that you make your choices, that you are fulfilled in your decisions and the changes that will then occur as a result of these choices will occur naturally. You are not alone to live this, do not believe that it is always better with the neighbor.
 
Love therefore creates new friendships but can also break others. The key is to get to know your friends well and be prepared to make an effort to keep those who are really worth it! Because it can also be an opportunity to distance yourself from those who do not climb us up. Love and friendship can be linked, you just have to find the right balance…